Mabye I’m oversharing, but this is important

So I know its been forever since my last post.  And truth be told, I did stop stretching for a little while.  And even when I was stretching, I wasn’t really inspired to write about it because there was nothing new to say that hadn’t already been said.  But luckily I was completely re-inspired by a new routine and have been going steady for the last few months. Over that time, I have been wearing my stretcher for only 30 minutes twice a day.  That’s it.  And by now any initial skepticism I had about this short routine is long gone.  I can say for certain that things are progressing quite well.  And even though I’m probably not even half way done with the whole process, I already feel like I have a brand new penis.  In fact, it has totally revolutionized the way I masturbate.  And as a pleasant surprise, it has also totally changed how the different pleasure centers of my penis work.  I get off in a completely new and better way.  There is now enough extra skin for it to slide all the way up and down my entire shaft with zero friction.  Its like I have a built-in jerk off sleeve.  And it has already been incorporated into our sexual repertoire.  And as far as sex goes, I only notice chafing every once in a while instead of nearly every time.  Every day I love my new penis more and more, and just wearing the stretcher for an hour a day is so much easier.  It became so daunting to try and wear it for as many hours as I could every day.  But this new routine is so much more manageable from a mental standpoint.  I can’t explain why it works better this way.  I suppose its a bit counter-intuitive, but the results are clearly speaking for themselves.  Apparently more (stretching) is not necessarily better in this case.

Now comes the part where I tell you again that this is such an incredible thing to do for yourself and your partner.  Guys, unless you are intact, you have no idea how cool this is, I can try to explain it all day long, but you have to just do it and experience it yourself.  Even having a half-functioning foreskin is light years better than before.  Even if I stopped today and never stretched again it would have still been totally worth it.  But now I can’t wait to see what it will be like next month, and the month after that, and the month after that…  Oh, and today I finally moved from a 4″ rod on my stretcher to a 5″ rod.  That means that so far I have added about 3 inches of extra skin to my penis.  That sounds like a lot, but apparently I had that much to grow just to get it to the point where the skin would start bunching over the hump of my coronal ridge.  So at first glance it doesn’t look like much has happened yet, but upon closer inspection you can tell that quite a bit has changed.  It’s pretty fascinating to finally get some idea of how it would have felt to have remained intact.  And the best is still yet to come.  Feeling very grateful right about now.

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7 Comments

  1. Hey kris, your words are inspiring. I’ve just starting tugging a couple months ago. But I’m looking to speed up the process. I would really like to know what stretcher you use. If you could send a link or something I would be very grateful. I’m so glad they’re other men that feel the way I do about this and instead of sulking in anger/sadness over what was done to me, I’m going to do what I can to better myself, and I’m glad you are doing the same. That we are of like minds on this issue. So please help me pick a device. Also any tips you have will be apprenticed . My name is erick btw.

    • Thanks for reading my blog. I’m happy to answer any questions. I actually speak rather extensively in my other posts about which device I use, but in short, I have what is called a DTR. There is a link to it on my helpful websites page. The DTR device is very well designed and built.

    • Riley, First, thanks for bring to the party the word SULKING. I thought it was a sucky word, looked it up. and shit, it’s a perfect word for so many cut men’s feelings, which are justified.

      Second, to help you compare and select foreskin restoration DEVICES based on your own lifestyle and means, you’ll want to check out http://www.x-mail.net/restore/compare.htm though I note it doesn’t list the MP. My favorite was the Foreballs which was comfortable, i believe 7 oz and with enough skin a narrow vercro strip made it easy on /off, and was shiny so when worn, the glint of the ball just hanging from the foreskin’s end looked like jewelry. i also have used a heavy two ringed stainless steel curtain ring which i could hang more weight. As I mostly have done restoring when playing, this was fun. It’s based on the circular ring on the penis skin becomes oval with it’s weight and more so with added weight, so it draws the skin down. Also depending, slides off too.

      Third, ANGER, you know something is amiss with circumcision when many men resort to yelling – “I LOVE my CIRCUMCISED DICK!!!” (if it makes you happy, why are you angrily yelling?). I used to be very angry especially when seeing groups of women being all up and happy, all genitally protected, all happy. Patricia Robinett (author of The Rape of Innocence. She discovers her own circumcision that parallels so many men’s own discovery, Very good.) Patricia on an early restore-list helped me immensely. I agree when she said [forced] circumcision is all about power (over others) and that it creates a general underlining dissatisfied anger that one doesn’t know, can’t say why. And recognizing the harms of being cut of course can result in a complete encompassing deep anger. Here’s some ways that have helped men get back to being happy: educate yourself and so others on circ., foreskin restoration, protest, intactivism, talk and write, and help others discover. Also omega 3 has been shown by studies to decrease violence in prisons as a mood elevator. It doesn’t stop anger, but helps to be able to shake it off as opposed to being stuck – I’m mad, I’m mad, damn it I’m mad… So these things worked for me. A step to restoring (adapted from smoking cessation) is to first identify in one’s mind that they are restoring when they are actively doing so and also when taking breaks whatever the duration, even years. This way the mind continually transforms itself with being better on the road to healing, than being stuck as circumcised. This alone is a big gain that limits negative experience and self defeat. Speaking of the mind, two men have separately told me after restoring, their minds permitted them to believe they never have been cut.
      (BTW I’m mindful to NOT use the word circumcision but better to say genital cutting (or mutilation depending), like not saying uncircumcised but say intact. Why? please see on youtube: George Lakoff: Moral Politics (I don’t trust Lakoff and I feel his delivery to be manufactured without passion so any ’emotion’ must be contrived. Nonetheless, his message is important to understand and adopt.)

      Frank McGinness
      (NSFW restore photo) https://justasnip.wordpress.com/2012/12/15/frankly-speaking/
      https://www.facebook.com/frank.mcginness.7/notes
      news.kuwaittimes.net/pdf/2014/dec/03/p28.pdf
      http://www.ctvnews.ca/health/estranged-couple-s-fight-over-son-s-circumcision-spurs-legal-battle-1.2195095

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